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We Eloped!

On November 11, 2025, we exchanged vows in a private ceremony by the ocean.


We are thrilled to share our love with you and look forward to celebrating together soon.

Our Story

It all started on March 18, 2023 at Cronies in Camarillo. Tomek had just finished golfing when one glance across the room became something more. Cheyenne wrote her name and number on a napkin, set it on his table, and rushed out before she could change her mind. The very next day, they met — and they’ve hardly spent a day apart since.

Cheyenne’s first impression of Tomek was not just how handsome he is, but how he carried himself with effortless confidence. She felt an instant connection — the kind that felt too good to be true. From their very first date, she knew she was safe, loved, and had found something real. As she watched him interact with her pets, her family, and the world around him, she realized she had found everything she dreamed of in one person: a provider, a partner, a best friend, and a soft place to land — her forever.

Tomek’s first impression of Cheyenne was the immediate physical attraction, but it didn’t take long for something deeper to take hold. He fell in love with her intelligence, her grace, her emotional depth, and the way everything felt natural with her from the start. Very early on, he knew she was the woman he wanted to build a life with — the one he hoped would one day be the mother of his children.

Since then, they’ve built a life that feels like equal parts adventure and home. Road trips, reggae festivals, beach days, backpacking trips, quiet mornings, family dinners, and all the little in-between moments that made them them. Together, they balance each other: Tomek brings drive, discipline, and logic; Cheyenne brings warmth, empathy, and heart. They push each other, soften each other, and grow together.

On June 10, 2025 — Cheyenne’s 30th birthday — Tomek proposed at Rincon Point in Ventura. After a morning hike where Tomek “found” a mysterious key, the two walked along the beach until they discovered a treasure chest hidden in the sand. Inside was the beginning of their next chapter — and when the chest opened, Tomek was already on one knee.

What began with a napkin has grown into a home full of love, pets, laughter, and traditions. And now, as they step into marriage, they look forward to the life ahead — raising a family, creating new memories, and continuing to choose each other every day, with the same energy and intention that brought them here.

Celebration Plans

Although our wedding day was private and just for us, we know how important it is to share this joy with the people we love. In the weeks ahead, we look forward to spending time with our families in more personal ways — dinners, small gatherings, and quiet moments that mean the most.

We are also planning a future celebration where everyone can come together in one place. Think of it as the big moment to laugh, toast, dance, and celebrate not just our wedding day, but the life we are building together.

We don’t have the details yet, but we’ll be sharing them here when the time comes. Until then, we’re excited for all the ways we’ll get to celebrate with you — individually and collectively — in the months ahead.

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